Blog EntryAnd another Irresponsible owner....Nov 15, '07 9:09 AM
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Is Dark Pearl really in good hands? Now I wonder....
 
 

 

Dark Pearl (male) was adopted in early June and I did not see any need to visit because the photos and emails seemed to indicate that he is much loved and happy in his new home and having a female companion.

 

The adopter signed a contract, the terms of which include that the cat be sterilised at age of 6 month (which would be Sept ’07) and also visiting rights.

 

I advised her to get her other (female) cat sterilised first and I believe she has done so. However when it was time for Dark Pearl she came up with many excuses…including that she herself is pregnant so she cant bring him to the vet, her vet charges are expensive, waiting for her salary to come in, the vet advised to have him sterilised at age of 10 month and etc… 

 

Of course I did offer to pick him up and do everything for her free of charge…but I was told to mind my on business.

 

In the end she said that she would sterilize him mid November. I waited another month…

Then no reply to my sms yesterday (asking whether he has been done), so I told her that I wish to visit him next week.

 

 This is the reply I received:

 

“Had already send Fifi for sterilization! End of conversation n stop disturbing me! This will be your last warning! I mean it this time!”

 

I have my doubts so I told her that I insist to see for myself.

 

To which she rudely replied:

 

“HEY LADY!! BUZZ OFF N U R NOT WELCOME TO MY HOUSE!! JUST BLOODY LEAVE ME ALONE!!!….”

 

 

 

 



vegancatsg wrote on Nov 15, '07
Ask Dawn of CWS on legal proceeding against this family. If there is a cost for a lawyer's letter, I will be most happy to chip in.
meowies wrote on Nov 15, '07
A difficult decision to make....I have gone through all the options trying to think what would be best for the cat. I will have to be prepared to take him back. Will I be able to find him another home? Will ask Dawn's advise...
julesnsp wrote on Nov 15, '07
Yes, please ask Dawn to help, after all you do have a a proper adopter's contract in hand which grants u visiting rights. I would be worried about Dark Pearl with such a seemingly aggressive person. She actually threatened u! Remember to keep the sms as proof.
marydrolma wrote on Nov 16, '07
This lady is so rude! And i am seriously wondering if Dark Pearl is still with her - why she needs to be so defensive if everything is in order? Be strong Helga, don't let her behaviour affect you.
meowies wrote on Nov 16, '07
Ah...thanks Julie, for reminding me to keep the sms! She told Sharifah today that both cats have been sterilised and that she is pregnant and not well. As I told her, all she would have to do is to either let me verify with the vet or let me visit to check that he has been done. Something is not right here....
Yes, I begin to wonder about her mental state...so much anger and aggression without being provoked.
Mary, I have a gut-feeling that she still has the cats. I even believe that she has done the female cat after I urged her to do so...but she just does not want to sterilise the male.
marydrolma wrote on Nov 16, '07
Hi Meowies, why not get Sharifah to check on Dark Pearl?
tippedearclan wrote on Nov 16, '07
Hope it will be sorted out. And when you have time, do induct this person into the hall. ;-)
meowies wrote on Nov 18, '07
I think it's not near Sharifah's place, don't want to trouble her so much. Will go myself next week...
Will definitely induct her...after the matter is settled!
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